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Auntie SparkNotes: I've Been Dating a Secret White Supremacist

By kat_rosenfieldJuly 31, 2015
Dear Auntie, I've been dating the same guy for three years this November, and it's been a very happy relationship. He's kind and funny and we clicked so well when we first met. He's my best friend and until about a week ago, we were/are(?) ... More  →
Auntie SparkNotes: I've Been Dating a Secret White Supremacist

Auntie SparkNotes: I Don't Want to Live with My Sister

By kat_rosenfieldJuly 30, 2015
Dear Auntie, I have an older sister (who I'll call Kelsey). Kelsey has a part-time job and she cannot afford to live on her own for various reasons, so she lives with me and my mom. For most of my life, my sister has been difficult to ... More  →
Auntie SparkNotes: I Don't Want to Live with My Sister

Auntie SparkNotes: How Can I Plan a Party Without Hurting Anyone's Feelings?

By kat_rosenfieldJuly 29, 2015
Dear Auntie SparkNotes, I’m an August baby, which has been a blessing and annoyance throughout my life. Pros: I have never had to go to school or attend uni on my birthday, I'm usually at home, and at least there is a slightly lower possibility of ... More  →
Auntie SparkNotes: How Can I Plan a Party Without Hurting Anyone's Feelings?

Auntie SparkNotes: How Do I Choose from Two Possible Paths?

By kat_rosenfieldJuly 28, 2015
Dear Auntie SparkNotes, I need advice on how to choose my future. I have been trying to settle this since I left high school (I'm 22 now so it's not going so perfectly, hence the need for advice!). So basically, I'm from the countryside and grew up on ... More  →
Auntie SparkNotes: How Do I Choose from Two Possible Paths?

Auntie SparkNotes: Do I Have an Eating Disorder?

By kat_rosenfieldJuly 27, 2015
Dear Auntie SparkNotes, I've been reading your column for several years now, and I've always found it entertaining and informative, even when the topic doesn't pertain to me. But recently I've been perusing some of your past advice trying to find answers about an issue that ... More  →
Auntie SparkNotes: Do I Have an Eating Disorder?

Auntie SparkNotes: What If I'm in Love for the Wrong Reasons?

By kat_rosenfieldJuly 24, 2015
Dear Auntie Sparknotes, I've been in a relationship for several months, and I'd like to stay in it. (That is an understatement.) The guy in question is really nice, and I care about him so much, and I've become very attached. The problem is that I'm ... More  →
Auntie SparkNotes: What If I'm in Love for the Wrong Reasons?

Auntie SparkNotes: My Boyfriend Wants to Be a Priest

By kat_rosenfieldJuly 23, 2015
My dearest darlingest Auntie SparkNotes, I had a seemingly perfect relationship. My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year, and I'm so incredibly in love with him. He makes me feel so happy, and he treats me like a princess. But lately, he's ... More  →
Auntie SparkNotes: My Boyfriend Wants to Be a Priest

Auntie SparkNotes: Can I Ask My Friend About His Gender Identity?

By kat_rosenfieldJuly 22, 2015
Dear Auntie, For the sake of tradition: I have a boy problem. Or rather, I potentially have a boy problem, but it could also be a girl problem… And actually, I guess it's not really a problem anyway, just a question. I have this friend, whom I ... More  →
Auntie SparkNotes: Can I Ask My Friend About His Gender Identity?

Auntie SparkNotes: How Can I Stop Being an Overthinking, Awkward Mess Around Guys?

By kat_rosenfieldJuly 21, 2015
Dear Auntie SparkNotes, So there's this guy. Or not, or maybe—I'm not sure yet. But there is a problem. As a general rule, I suck at being a human being (we're talking awkward, incapable of making conversation, general horribleness, etc.), especially around the opposite sex. I ... More  →
Auntie SparkNotes: How Can I Stop Being an Overthinking, Awkward Mess Around Guys?

Auntie SparkNotes: Was My Ex Really Abusive?

By kat_rosenfieldJuly 20, 2015
Dear Auntie, I'm a 20-year old college student who broke up with my boyfriend a month ago. During the course of our relationship, he did a few small things that my friends found concerning. Once, during an argument, he threw my wallet across the room ... More  →
Auntie SparkNotes: Was My Ex Really Abusive?
About the Author
kat_rosenfield

Kat Rosenfield is a writer, illustrator, advice columnist, YA author, and enthusiastic licker of that plastic liner that comes inside a box of Cheez-Its. She loves zombies and cats. She hates zombie cats. Follow her on Twitter or Tumblr @katrosenfield.

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