Getting attention from someone you think is cute is pretty awesome. Getting too much attention, from anyone, veers into creepsville. Sometimes the attention-giver doesn't even realize what they're doing. How do you deal with something like this without locking yourself in your bedroom and never ... More →
So I think I have a problem. I have a pretty close group of friends from high school, made up of three boys and one other girl, my best friend, who we’ll call Macy. I am also a feminist in a notoriously non-feminist culture, ... More →
For a year now, #SquadGoals has been the hashtag you can't get away from—ever since Taylor Swift and her merry band of model besties became the nation's biggest primary source of friendspiration.
And confession, nothing makes me twitch with barfy rage like seeing it pop up ... More →
I recently got into my very first adult relationship, but it's not what I expected.
Most of the time we've spent together has been in his parent's basement where he lives. I love spending time with him, and he's told me he really really ... More →
There's this guy I like, who I'll call Richard. Richard is a guitarist that I met two years ago. Since then we've become close friends and we both like the same kind of music. Because of this, I want to write a song for ... More →
A few months ago I completely cut off my best friend, Anna, of six years because she did some things that really hurt my feelings, and made realize that she hadn't always been a very good friend to me. All I really wanted was ... More →
Is it possible to date someone when their best friend hates you?
Recently I've been talking to an ex of mine that I'm good friends with now. We haven't dated for a while (five months) but the idea of getting back together has come ... More →
I am a seventeen-year-old girl who is currently at community college. This past semester, I had a class with a certain boy, whom we shall call "John." Let it be known that I think John is cute. I liked the way he would try ... More →
Just recently a group of my friends did secret Santa, me included. I got one of my best friends, so I spent the £10 budget on her secret Santa present, as well as on a separate present because, well, she's my best friend. I ... More →
I've been puzzling over something for a while. I'm wondering if you can help me understand my feelings!
Quite a few months ago, I was at a party with some friends—a small group with whom I spend time on the occasional weekend/holiday. In this ... More →
Kat Rosenfield is a writer, illustrator, advice columnist, YA author, and enthusiastic licker of that plastic liner that comes inside a box of Cheez-Its. She loves zombies and cats. She hates zombie cats. Follow her on Twitter or Tumblr @katrosenfield.