I'm a female who identifies as male, and I've been aware of it for a couple years now. I've been accepted by my family, friends, and even my boyfriend. The thing is, I don't know if I really identify as a guy, or if ... More →
I'm sort of seeing a guy and things are good, we're sort of between FWB and relationship on the whole scale (we haven't labelled it but I got him a card and chocolate for Valentine's and he bought me lunch in return. Side ... More →
I'm having boy problems. Quite unusual, I know. Long story short, during my first semester of college, I ended a two-year relationship that made me very unhappy and made me very afraid of ever having a relationship again. I'd rather not go into details, ... More →
My little sister (18) started dating this guy (18), about a month and a half ago. Although I love that he makes my sister happy, he can be really inappropriate in front on me (19) and my family. He'll suggest sleeping with her overnight ... More →
Dear Auntie SparkNotes,
I've been involved in an on-again off-again relationship with my trans-boyfriend for about a year (most of the time being off and staying friends). He's been a good friend of mine since middle school and he came out to me when we started ... More →
This must be very repetitive, as I know you get billions of drama letters a day (Okay, maybe not A BILLION, but about 40). But, alas, there is a male love interest and a best friend involved. Let us refer to the male as ... More →
I was Skyping with a very dear (white) friend of mine the other day and it seemed that he had no problem saying the n-word. Now, the two times he said it were in the context of 1) reading a meme out loud and ... More →
I have the following questions to ask: is it possible to be intellectually attracted to someone only? How can I keep my long-distance relationship with my boyfriend healthy or exciting?
Let me explain the context: I currently have a boyfriend; we've been together for four ... More →
Dear Auntie SparkNotes,
I am a high school sophomore girl who has always dealt with overprotective parents (I mean, dating? HAHAHA FORGET IT). But right now I feel like it’s gone a little bit overboard. Both my younger sister and I have agreed that it has. ... More →
Here's yet another boy problem for you to help with: I'm a freshman in love with a senior. We were in the school play together and I developed a pretty strong crush on him. He's the whole package: caring, talented, funny, and one of ... More →
Kat Rosenfield is a writer, illustrator, advice columnist, YA author, and enthusiastic licker of that plastic liner that comes inside a box of Cheez-Its. She loves zombies and cats. She hates zombie cats. Follow her on Twitter or Tumblr @katrosenfield.